2015年4月13日 星期一

Wedding Dance Ideas (part 1- what not to choose)

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If you have read thoroughly my Wedding Dance page, you will find that there are a few dance I do not include in my standard package, and there are only two dances to choose from the SuperEasy package (click here for a summary of both). It is easier to understand that some dances are more technical than the others, but why for people who are ready to take a regular class for a year, there are still dances not fit for them?

First of all, I never mean to say an absolute NO to some particular dances, the ones that are not listed could still be taught upon request as long as you think that is the best for you. However, as a trained teacher, I personally do not recommend dances like Paso Doble, Ballroom Tango, Argentine Tango, International Jive, Polka, and Lambada. It is not because I could not teach these dances (well, even if I myself cannot, I have teachers to teach!), but because of the suitability. Ordinary weddings are usually sweet and romantic which do not fit these styles (check the full list of dance styles here), but if you want surprises in hen parties, or you want an entertaining good show on the big day, go to part 3.

Let's look into the Paso Doble. It is in fact my favourite Latin dance. However, it is hard to master not because of the footwork, but the shape. You need to imagine yourselves a cape, a bull or a matador. Really? This is your wedding!

Then Ballroom Tango, it is a nice dance filled with tension and uncertainty. It is like attack and withdraw, attack attack and withdraw. Its love is too hot to touch, its hate is too dangerous to face. But shouldn't a wedding dance be sweet?

The Argentine Tango is sexy, very sexy and intimate. It is seductive because it was originated in brothels, it was danced by the prostitutes and their customers. But a bride is a bride, a bride is a princess, a queen, a star, an affection for the bridegroom. This dance may be nice to dance privately in the room but showcase to the relatives and friends? Unless you are professional Tango teachers.

International Jive is an energetic and lively dance. Somehow it is too sassy to dance in most wedding. Can you imagine a bride wearing floor length gown jumping like a bug ad get sweating like a hog? Maybe it is better to have it in a crazy hen party?

Polka is actually a happy dance, I would not say it is absolutely not suitable for wedding, it is in fact a dance for peasants to dance at all celebrations include wedding. Considering the music style, it is better to dance at a garden, a barn or something country, which are not quite available in HK. BUT, the footwork is
Q.Step compatible! If you can pick the correct music, it will look grand at an elegant wedding. 

Lastly the forbidden dance Lambada (well if you read dance style blog entries you'll know it is not) is a hot dance that requires you to swing you hips all the time, plus that the unique footwork is not so friendly to most people. What makes it worse to be a wedding dance is that is that the dance basically forms by a lot of grinding and thrusting. Such a dance should be great fun in carnivals!

Now you know what not to choose, let's check what factors affect the choice of dance styles in part 2
As mentioned before, a normal wedding may not need special unexpected but of you want surprise, go straight to part 3.

**Also see our Wedding Dance Page for everything.

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